What Love Is, Part 1

June 3rd, 2016

The heart has its reasons that reason knows nothing of.
– Pascal

Love. What is it really?

“Love”, within infidelity, isn’t. Love in this context is an interpretation. It is an encounter between a person – the object of desire – and an experience – the passion of eros. It can leave one intoxicated with emotion that drives both decisions and behaviors in often inalterable ways. The result of this fusion is one of the most destructive mistakes a human can make. The Fundamental Attribution Error is when you confuse an experience with a person who just happens to be a part of the encounter. You believe you MUST have that person in order to have that experience.


Healing After Infidelity

May 3rd, 2016

I sit here today writing about the potential “gift” within the suffering caused by infidelity and the hope of true love and deep fulfillment because of the love of a woman. Ironically, many of us are wounded in relationship to people tasked to nurture and care for us, yet for a variety of reasons, do not..


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