9 Signs of a Cheating Spouse

September 1st, 2016

Increased hours working and traveling

If their work pattern suddenly changes, this is sign. The unfaithful partner may spend a greater amount of time at the office, attending meetings, traveling to events and on business trips, all in an effort to cover-up or find plausible excuses to hide the infidelity.


5 Reasons People Cheat

July 20th, 2016

How did my marriage to a model and former pageant queen with three adorable children end in an affair and divorce?

I created conditions where vulnerability met opportunity, all in the name of survival and self-preservation. In fact, there were five specific reasons why my affair happened. They are themes that explain why many other people engage in the same destructive choice to commit infidelity:


What Love Is – Part 2

June 23rd, 2016

Real relationships compete unsuccessfully for the illusion affair relationships deliver – the anticipation that one’s deep longings for contact, wholeness, completeness and soulfulness are met. The affair promises to transcend and annihilate the mundane status quo of so many of our marital arrangements. Nothing could be further from the truth. First, however, you must distinguish between the fantasy of an affair versus the potential intimacy in a committed relationship.


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