9 Signs of a Cheating Spouse

September 1st, 2016

Increased hours working and traveling

If their work pattern suddenly changes, this is sign. The unfaithful partner may spend a greater amount of time at the office, attending meetings, traveling to events and on business trips, all in an effort to cover-up or find plausible excuses to hide the infidelity.


Infidelity Can Be a New Beginning, Not an Ending, Part 1

August 2nd, 2016

Marriage is hard. Most of us are not prepared for what it asks.  Full of potential and hope, and dangerously frail, a relationship is often ill equipped for the challenges before it – vulnerable to being damaged, sometimes, beyond repair. Infidelity destroyed our marriage.  Love, which we were surprised by, healed us and created a […]


5 Reasons People Cheat

July 20th, 2016

How did my marriage to a model and former pageant queen with three adorable children end in an affair and divorce?

I created conditions where vulnerability met opportunity, all in the name of survival and self-preservation. In fact, there were five specific reasons why my affair happened. They are themes that explain why many other people engage in the same destructive choice to commit infidelity:


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