Infidelity… it is indeed our secret epidemic until the next celebrity like Arnold Schwarzenegger’s love child tragic saga unfolding rivets the nation’s attention to the fact that betrayal, in all of its various forms, is alive and well in marriages across our nation. The question many are asking is this: Can a marriage actually be [...]

The following blog was published by Psychology Today on April 28th, 2011: “I am an adulterer who happens to be a licensed clinician and willing to tell you the truth about why I was unfaithful to my wife. I could speak from decades of experience about love and relationship but that would lack integrity. Instead, [...]

In life, you can complain or you can create. Our greatest freedom is to choose which of these will get our time and energy. One leaves you victimized by the events and circumstances of life, the other allows you to be instructed by the wisdom in every failure. Recovery from infidelity is no different than [...]